Greetings. Your search is ending! Now there’s no more excuse to put off meeting--and winning--your own soul mate! No more miserable dates! No more broken promises and broken dreams!
Finding a loving, lasting relationship just got easier! In this box is all the help you need to avoid making the tragic mistakes that have brought nothing but misery to so many of your friends. Here you will discover the same techniques for finding a mate that have resulted in the most successful marriages... and the lowest divorce rate... in the world!
Get The Ring brings together the best advice from seven of today’s top counselors and speakers on dating and marriage. It is practical, clear information that can transform your life and help you not only find the Right One, but also build a lasting and loving relationship.
Here are just some of the things you will learn in Get The Ring:
- How and where to find the one you’re searching for. - What is Love, really? And how the definition can totally change your chance at a successful relationship. - How to know if he or she is the Right One. - The right way to "pop the question" - What makes a great marriage – understanding the "parallel themes." - The essential difference between men and women, that will transform the relationship - The myth about first impressions in dating. - The 3 minute rule for first dates. - The Jell-O rule to timing. - The Hollywood lie, how it can kill your relationship. - How to detect false fantasies. - The trait which will make your marriage great, the more you have, the better it becomes. - Why differences make better marriages. - The 10 ways to marry the wrong person - The 3 secret methods to learning the other persons true character. - The key to emotional safety. - How to test the strength of the relationship. - Learn the most tragic mistake people make. - Understand triangulation and how to avoid it. - Evaluating family vs. career for women. - The main reason people get divorced, and how to avoid it. - Marriage advice for men: understand what women want the most. - Marriage advice for women: understand what men want the most and how they are different. - How to know when you are ready: not knowing this advice can almost guarantee a bad relationship. - How to keep the "magic" going and going, and going. - And much, much more....
Get The Ring is an intensive crash-proofing course in finding your mate, getting... and staying... happily married. It combines the wisdom of the ages with the wit and practical experience of counselors dealing with real life issues on a daily basis. You simply cannot go wrong following their guidance. Go for it!
Customer Reviews:
Customer Rating: Summary: Read this before you plan marriage Comment: These CD's are filled with so much wisdom and insight into married life i felt like i was in the presence of a guru. (particularly with the first speaker.) The advice they give makes a lot of sense, and will save you a lot of heartache, so buying it is soooo worth the investment. Customer Rating: Summary: Excellent resource and guidance Comment: David LeVine is the pretend interviewer for this series of CDs, which is to say it seems obvious that he has taken some recorded seminars and other recordings and spliced in questions which the sources then sort of seem like they might be answering. Ignoring this phony interview format, which only occasionally intrudes, these CDs contain some really useful information from the perspective of some conservative rabbis and other conservative Jews. As a Christian it was very interesting to have some excellent ideas stressed coming from a perspective from a different religious culture, and my thinking has definitely enhanced as a result of hearing these CDs. I have a book by one of the sources, but audio CDs are so much better than books for thinking about this sort of information, at least for me. I paid more than the Amazon price at a web site by the same name as the book because I didn't know it was available up here, but decided that the price would be worth it if it had good information, given the cost of getting into or maintaining a bad relationship or marriage.
There are several topics. One is 10 Ways to Marry the Wrong Person. It is not useful for those who are having trouble getting the wrong person to marry them, but rather 10 things to be aware of so that you don't get into a marriage that will not work. And it is not a checklist, but a set of well articulated insights. If this CD set helps keep you from just one disastrous marriage or helps you get into a good marriage it will have paid for itself (duh!).
Two quick ideas from the CDs: Don't marry potential; many think their partner will change, and they will--for the worse. Find someone you want to give to, because love is about giving.
I am very happy I got it the Get the Ring CD series and I would highly recommend this set to anyone who is dating or contemplating marriage.
Customer Rating: Summary: outstanding edition Comment: I listened to the whole series and am very impressed with it. It gives clear definitions of what we need to look for in a mate. What areas we can not compromise on. What areas are less vital.
It offers suggestions for how to be in the right relationship and it also talks about making ourself into the person we would want to marry. A person who is looking to give is the person most ready for marriage. So many of us look at marriage as a give and take and this can hurt marriages a lot.
It offers some very traditional advice that include not touching before marriage which may be going a bit far for most. But most importantly it gives solid guidelines for what to be and what to look for in order to really have a great chance of a truly successful marriage. May GOD bless all of you with just that since you deserve it. Customer Rating: Summary: Eliminate dating pain and find the love of your life Comment: Are you tired of the dating game and looking forward to form a meaningful relationship that will last for a lifetime with someone special? The Get the Ring audio program was designed by David LaVine to arm the listener with key dating and relationship concepts of Traditional Judaism. Traditional Jews have been reported to have the lowest divorce rate of any cultural group in the Western World and David LaVine wanted to know why and how could that knowledge help him find and keep the love of his life. At first he thought that Traditional Judaism does not allow for divorce, but was surprised that not only that Traditional Judaism allows for divorce, it actually requires it when the two partners cannot resolve the rift that separates them. After finding out Traditional Judaism's secrets to successful dating and marriage, he married the love of his life.
This audio series presents the findings of his search by having seven of Traditional Judaism's most dynamic religious and relationship councilors expound on Traditional Judaism's approach to finding and keeping a life partner. The fascinating, attention demanding, and sometimes, humorous lectures in this series are eye opening as the information shared in them is radical in comparison to modern dating norms. With an open ear, a willing heart, and girded with the information, you can find that special person, bring a budding relationship to full bloom or make an already great relationship better. Whether you are single or married, this series will be certain to bring more meaning to your current or future relationship.
Customer Rating: Summary: For anyone who wants a great relationship Comment: When I first heard about "Get the Ring," my initial reaction was, "Do we really need another series of advice on relationships?" The market seems to be flooded with them.
But then I listened to it. Impressed is not the word.
First of all, let me explain what "Get the Ring" is and what it isn't. It is a six CD/cassette series on dating and marriage. However, it is not preachy, and it is not dry. It is based on a series of interviews with seven top marriage counselors, each with his or her own style and manner of presentation. The interviews are lively, humorous and unbelievably on target. You can tell that the interviewees are dealing with these issues on a daily basis.
One of the most unique aspects of the series is that it's not geared to any specific population. Lots of books on relationships focus on either singles or marrieds. Rarely do they offer information that is useful to both. But I would highly recommend "Get the Ring" to anyone, whether never-married, divorced and looking, married but having difficulties or married happily. I, for example, have been happily married for 8 ½ years and I still found lots of great ideas for making our marriage even better. My husband listened, too, and he said the same thing.
Another unusual facet of "Get the Ring" is the source material of its content. All seven speakers plus David LeVine, the producer of the series as well as the interviewer, are practicing, traditional Jews. As such, their presentations are based on Judaism. But their advice and guidelines are so right-on, and ring so true, that you'd never know that they're formed by a tradition thousands of years old if nobody told you. The series is geared toward an entirely secular audience, so everyone can enjoy and benefit.
The range of topics is so wide that it's hard to believe that it all fits into just over five hours. Some of the topics include defining love, differences between men and women (unbelievable!), detailed dating advice, how to discern true character, and how to make time for each other despite hectic schedules. One of my personal favorites is the "Ten Ways to Marry the Wrong Person." I thought it to be an absolutely mind-boggling presentation, especially the down-to-earth, practical advice on discovering true character, common interests and life goals. Just that information alone could totally change the way a single man or woman would approach dating - and it gave me some interesting ideas on how to enhance my own marriage. I could add some more details, but I don't want to spoil it for you.
A word of caution, however. (Some people might consider this a "con" even though I think it's a "pro.") A lot of the ideas presented seem at first glance to be revolutionary, especially in today's day and age. An open mind is a prerequisite for listening to this series. So if all you're looking for is to have your old opinions and preconceptions reinforced, you're not going to be very happy after listening. Then again, maybe the series will open your eyes and you'll see where you've been going wrong and how to fix your mistakes.
If there are any real "cons," the only one I can think of is that, because the recording was done in an office, there is occasionally some background noise that can be distracting - although the sound quality happens to be excellent. As far as I'm concerned, it's a small price to pay for information that could change your life.
Having listened to "Get the Ring" over five times, my opinion is that anyone who seriously wants to get married or to have a better marriage cannot go wrong by following the advice in the series. In his introduction, David LeVine says that your chances of finding the right one increase every time you listen. I couldn't agree more.